Tuesday, 31 October 2017

Making a balls of the JC Ball at Mooneys


On Friday night last I set off from home to collect Evin, one of our sons who was coming home for the bank holiday week end from college.  Leaving home at 8, I’d have time to get a few things in Dunnes and we’d be home in 30 minutes. What could be easier?
As I drove along the Quays I noticed a crowd gather outside Mooneys. As it was a bank holiday the roads were busy and traffic hoping to turn over the bridge was backed up towards Mooneys Bar where I had to stop. 
I changed lanes as I was heading straight on. The group of kids standing on the kerb within inches of where I was driving looked bigger and were certainly getting closer.  One or two were definitely swaying and I slowed down further lest I tip off them.  I recognised a face or two and proceeded to the junction with Charlotte St.  There I could see a girl lying on the footpath. Her back was probed up against the side wall of an estate agents while a friend kneeled over her. Neither of the girls were more than 15.
I was in a line of traffic and continued on until I got to Redmond Square. I parked and noticed a bus discharging its passengers onto the street.  All young and hardly more than 15.  Some girls had clearly raided their sisters wardrobes and were staggering as they weren’t used to the high heels and platforms. Others may have raided their younger sisters wardrobes for a shorter dress while others just staggered.  They all set off in the direction of Mooneys on the Quays as if a pied piper was drawing them all to party.  Something worrying struck so I posted my feelings on facebook using the old Nokia blockia.
Once I had collected our son we set off home.  The girl at Charlotte St had disappeared and while there was still 40 young people outside Mooney’s I didn’t recognise any faces this time.  A girl was hanging on for dear life to a sign post outside the pub door as she negotiated the last few steps to the night club with her sister’s platform shoes. But still there was the nagging worry at the back of it all.
On Saturday morning the town was full of rumour. Let’s not give any of it legs here but what I saw and describe above I stand over.  I was told that the night club closed prematurely at about 10 O’Clock.  I understand that one girl needed medical treatment.  But Facebook told another story.  Parents posted complaints that their children were worried when clearly drunk children were admitted and it’s easy to see how panic set in.
Mooney’s facebook page had posts from parents complaining and rating it poorly. Today many of those posts have been deleted. Like their children who had been shown the door and refused a refund, when it really counted the opinions of these parents didn’t matter either. Indeed a message in the name of Mooneys on the Quays to their teenage base on facebook describes the event as a disaster however it asks the teenagers to stop rating the event on its page as a one star event as this would jeopardise further JC Balls.
This morning I spoke on Morning Mix on South East Radio with the owner of the nightclub and the presenter, Alan Corcoran.  To put it mildly texts and calls to the show were greatly critical of the event.  One woman described how her daughter complained that teenagers were drunk and vomiting, in some cases on themselves.
What particularly struck me was the admission by the owner that the ticketing is run by organisers who are legally children.  The legal reality however is that it is the owner who is ultimately responsible for his own venue and what happens there. A duty of care exists, not just when the person enters the night club but also on transport to and from the event and also as they stand outside the nightclub.  The owner claims that tickets to the event were forged. However this poses further questions. Why when tickets were discovered to have been forged was money accepted for admission? What steps are the nightclub taking to discover who forged the tickets and whether they have reported the forgery to the Gardaí?
The event seems to try to normalise in youngsters the worst aspects of adult behaviour; binge drinking and anti-social behaviour. I spoke with a local authority worker who told me that on Saturday morning there were bottles and cans to beat the band to be collected along the Quays.
 No amount of apologies by the nightclub owner can change that.  There are good teen events available to young people in Wexford, but this isn’t one of them.  A pub is for drinking or eating a meal, not for 15 year olds on the day celebrating their midterm break.
There are problems in some parts of the country with stags and hens parties. However who sees any merit in adding youngsters to that lethal cocktail? Parents with children who are travelling long distances to Wexford need to ask themselves what their kids are up to.  They also need to take responsibility and educate their kids about alcohol.
Because after every hangover, reality returns and the reality of JC Balls is that 14 and 15 year olds are simply not emotionally mature nor legally entitled to decide who comes and goes to a nightclub.









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